RELATED: Katie Maloney Reveals Date She Separated from Tom Schwartz and What Caused Divorce in New Docs Kevin Winter/Getty Katie Maloney and Tom Schwartz "Ī rep for Schwartz did not immediately respond to PEOPLE's request for comment. I put in the work for it, but it took time. "I understand you can't really change a person, and I don't necessarily want to."Īdmitting that she once exhibited "toxic behaviors," Maloney said, "I didn't want to be the reason that our relationship failed. It would require there to be a wake-up call or an epiphany," she explained. When asked if there was anything Schwartz could have done to save their marriage, Maloney noted that it would've required a major change from her ex. ![]() "I was just dying inside, just because I had been thinking about it day and night, and losing sleep over it, and I couldn't keep doing it to myself." "We had both changed and grown apart and that, maybe, this marriage wasn't the healthiest thing for us," she explained. I was very optimistic."ĭespite making the difficult decision to divorce, Maloney said she believes "separating was the best option and the best decision for myself and really for the both of us." I felt that we had grown together, and I thought that we would continue growing together. "I felt that we had overcome a lot together. "I really thought that we were gonna make it work," she added. RELATED: Katie Maloney Says She Felt 'Disconnected' from Tom Schwartz Ahead of Split: 'It Was Building Up' It's just a really hard thing to come to terms with."Īstrid Stawiarz/Getty Images Tom Schwartz and Katie Maloney "I didn't want to, because obviously I was in love with him and he was the person I wanted to be with. "I wasn't able to pinpoint it yet because I wasn't able to admit or realize yet that it could be my relationship," she continued. ![]() "I've been bogged down and putting all of my energy into this relationship and when I'm not getting my needs met, it's making me feel really sad and bad about myself." ![]() "I didn't realize this is why I'm feeling this way or feeling unfulfilled or unhappy," she said. ![]() Though Maloney tried to remain "optimistic" that things would work out, the reality star said she ultimately could not ignore her emotions, which were affecting her emotional and mental wellbeing. And then, it was a couple of weeks later, I had decided that I had wanted to get a divorce." "I think he thought that I was just gonna get over it or something. And then he just didn't really do anything," she continued. "It was one day, I just told him, 'This is how I've been feeling, I'm not feeling very happy.'. "I had been expressing my feelings and where I felt that I was not getting my needs met and where I thought I was being hurt by some of the behavior, and I don't think he understood or resonated or agreed," the 35-year-old Vanderpump Rulesstar recalled, claiming that she felt like she "put in the work" with their marriage but it wasn't reciprocated by Schwartz, 39. Katie Maloney is getting candid about what led to her divorce from Tom Schwartz.ĭuring an appearance on Lindsey Metselaar's We Met At Acme podcast on Sunday, Maloney opened up about the end of their 12-year relationship and her recent decision to file for divorce.
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